Recently a student from my alma mater reached out to me to ask me to talk about my experience of being a teacher. I agreed, and realized that somehow I’ve made it to the point in my career where I have advice to give. Right now, I am about five years into my career of being a public school teacher, which is longer than most people make it into this profession. A depressing thought, but an understandable one. I’ve seen a lot of the educators I went to school with or who started out around the same time as me move on to other roles, either in education or in a a completely different field. A year ago, I was ready to leave as well. However, I decided to try out a different school instead, and while my experience hasn’t been perfect by any means, I’ve been able to find a bit healthier of a work-life balance in my new position.

When the student asked me if there was anything I thought people should know about being a teacher, I said that to make it in this profession, you have to be patient. You do not get to see results of your efforts until at least a year or two later after you’ve said goodbye to a group of students, maybe even longer. You also won’t recognize your own growth when you’re in the middle of the stress and pain of dealing with whatever difficulties are in front of you. That doesn’t mean that everyone has to stick it out though. If it feels like the wrong role for you, it’s better to get out than wait and see whether things will improve. Most of the time, things in education don’t spontaneously get better on their own. So you have to decide if you can bear the difficulty of trying to improve your situation or if too much is being demanded of you for too little compensation.

One thing you can try to control as best as you can is the boundaries you set around work and how you approach opportunities that go above and beyond your job description. I, like many other teachers, was an overachiever all of my life– throughout high school, college, and graduate school. That was made possible partially because I was lucky enough to have parents taking care of my basic needs and because I was ignoring my physical or mental well-being so I could be more productive (which led me to having walking pneumonia as a 21-year-old– I do not recommend). However, once I started working as a teacher, I realized that being an overachiever really works to your disadvantage. You will already have more than you can possibly do piled onto you at any given time, so if you adopt the mindset that in order to stand out, you have to go above and beyond your job duties, you will burn out quickly.

I realized this during my first few years of teaching, and while I did experience burnout, especially during remote learning and the hectic in-person years after, I also gradually started to find more balance by cutting myself off from work at a certain time and by prioritizing my physical and mental well-being through exercising, eating well, and meditating. I got to the point where I became mentally OK with leaving work with a massive pile of things yet to be done. Today, I accomplish what absolutely needs to be done for the next day and a little of the stuff that has longer-term deadlines, while having the confidence in myself as a professional to know that the rest will get done at some point. I still work more than my contracted hours and I often work on the weekends because the alternative is working on Friday evenings or Monday early mornings, neither of which sound very appealing to me, but I feel more in control of my workflow.

Still, there was an itch my overachiever self wanted to scratch. While it might have been smart to just accept that one job is enough, and that I needed to stamp out the desire of always wanting to achieve more or advance in some way, I gave into that itch. Since my third year as a teacher, I’ve worked as a freelance writer in addition to my more-than-full-time job, writing study guides, curriculum, and content for apps, and lately, I’ve been leading workshops for other teachers on how to teach writing through the Bay Area Writing Project. Did these second jobs sometimes cause me to lose sleep and add to the stress of my regular job? You bet. But for the most part, I found that when it was a job I was interested in, it fulfilled a yearning for a different type of work than the one I do in the classroom. These jobs keep me motivated to continue developing myself as a writer, and they connect me to that aspect of my identity.

So, what should you do if you’re the overachiever type, and you find it really hard to give that up, even when your teaching job already demands too much? Well, I’ve figured out there is a way to do both. You just have to look for opportunities that overlap. I’ve done that by finding paid fellowships and freelance roles where I get to develop units or lessons that will be published for the broader public that I can also use in my classroom. I am feeding two birds with one plant (to adapt the more violent metaphor).

For example, a couple years ago, I participated in the Teach YR Fellowship through YR Media and developed a project-based learning unit on Social Media and Mental Health that I am still using in my classroom today, and this past year, I became a CRAFT Fellow through Stanford University to develop AI literary resources. I just wrapped up an argumentative writing unit on AI with my 11th grade Honors English students, and I am eager to share what I learned from CRAFT with other educators.

Most of these opportunities came as a result of me joining the community of the Bay Area Writing Project, which is the flagship organization of the National Writing Project. I’ve gained so much more than freelance opportunities from BAWP though. I also found a community of educators who also are passionate about both writing and education. If you are a teacher who is passionate about writing, I definitely recommend getting involved in your local chapter of NWP, and if you’re passionate about a different subject area, there are professional development organizations for all different subjects. It can be an eye-opening and affirming experience to learn from other educators who are experts in your particular field and who work in a completely different setting than you.

While I’ve been exploring these different freelance opportunities, I have to admit my creative writing has taken a backseat. Reflecting on what I want to accomplish in the next year, I reminded myself that working on my own creative writing is just as important to me as receiving recognition or payment for professional writing, so I’m going to focus more on that going forward. Still, I did get a story that I worked on for five years (I wrote at least seven drafts of it) published recently. It’s about two preteen frenemies who bond over feeling like they don’t quite fit into their Chinese summer school. If you’re curious about it, please check it out here.